Thursday, June 23, 2011

Blog as a personal diary

I've always wondering when reading some blog that tell about their personal story. I  didn't mind when they told about moving out, about their experience on getting pregnant or how they put their make up. That are something that I think are worth to share because we can get some information from it. But I do mind when they make their blog as a personal diary and told all of the details of their lives including their romance life, the bad side of their family and complaining about their life problem in their blog.

Come on people, just how stupid you are to realize that the whole world can read your  blog? I think that kind of story is a big NO in a blog. If  you want to make your blog as a diary, restrict your blog. How come you let your diary been read by the whole world? If  you don't know how to restrict your blog, just go to your blogger dashboard settings. Click the word 'permissions' and when you find the setting for the  blog reader, change it to 'only people I choose' or ''only blog authors', unless  you are hungry for a cheap publicity.

Family is the most important one in our life and we  have no right to talk bad about them even if it is true. It's our role to hide their bad side  from the others. Revealing their bad manner is the  same as revealing your stupidity and immature attitude. 

What about sharing your feeling when you have been dumped by your loved one? is  it acceptable for you? Some love to do that. Even put the details about their feeling on the blog. I really don't know what kind of people who do that but for sure, they are the kind who love to get sympathy from the whole world and are hunger for a cheap attention.

Some love to share their life problems and keep complaining and moaning about  it. Worse, they  keep blaming other for their problem without the intention of looking and analyzing their self. What is the point to keep on blaming other on your blog? Does it mean that you  are so perfect and never do any mistake?

Auww, I think I'm going too far already, sorry for the harsh word but I hate people who make their blog as a diary and put it as a 'U' rated. For me, these kind  of people is so cheap and annoying. A diary is a diary and it's never meant to be read by others. 
Peace!!!



24 comments:

makdara TERdiva said...

hy belle,

agreed
some bloggers too excited wrote all their feeling & bad story about life/hubby/inlaw..so sad!

akubiomed said...

I do agree with you. Some sensitive part need to be filter out from public to read.

Zezebel said...

makdara TERdiva,
Tak faham kenapa nak sangat malukan diri sammpai macam tu sekalikan? Memburuk-burukkan ahli keluarga, sama lah seperti membuka pekung di dada. Unless dia memang jenis yang tak tahu malu.

Zezebel said...

akubiomed,
Indeed. I enjoyed reading personal blog but when it come to things like this, I really hate it. Never understand why they are willing to do such thing.

Noriz said...

agreed!
sya pun buat personal blog mcm diary and hopefully dah terlanggar batas :(

SpeedyKlaat said...

I agreed too. It is good to write our diary and daily journal but I guess with limitation on how and what we are sharing online...Good post.

Zezebel said...

Noriz,
Dah baca blog Noriz. Blog personal macam blog Noriz tu ok je, :). Enjoy nak baca, :D.

Zezebel said...

SpeedyKlaat,
Thank you. Some people really don't know how to put a limit on their writing.

tengkorakemas said...

like you said, "they are the kind who love to get sympathy from the whole world and are hunger for a cheap attention."

so maybe we all should learn how to be blogger with patience, think first before write, draft, proof reading, and then publish

Amirez said...

totally agreed with u :)

diary sepatutnya terlalu peribadi utk diceritakan kpd umum, kecuali kpd certain trusted people. ni nak cerita satu dunia sampai hal dalam kelambu boleh buat orang naik rimas juga.

kalau blog personal yg nak share something barulah seronok nak baca :)

Zezebel said...

tengkorakemas,
Some people are not aware of it. They just talk something stupid and are happy to share their private life with others.

Zezebel said...

Amirez,
Personal blog terlalu jauh bezanya dengan blog yang bersifat seperti diari kan? :D

Faza Aloha said...

some point i agree!

Dulu Lain Sekarang Lain said...

my blog is about other people's diary.. He he.. Boleh ka cam tu Bel?

beaty said...

Actly sa pun minat sama presonal blog sebeb enjoy baca cerita dorang..

tapi kalau sampai melampaui batas n sampai part yang maki2 kan sa memang x suka..

Audrey Sayle said...

Well if you consider the popularity of things like Sex and the City, you'll find that many women ADORE to read and to talk about the sex lives and relationships of other women. I certainly do!

Purplemama said...

Same goes to FB status... i can differentiate positive people & negative one. Negative people complaint almost everything & almost everytime! it's not nice to spread negative aura to our friends.. ;-) Just my two cent opinion...hehe

Zezebel, are you from Kota Marudu? If u don't mind.. :-)

Purplemama said...

Oh No, you're KM people.. baru browse post2 lama. sorry... :-)
i'm from KM too! Maybe some of my friends are your friends too... What a small world... ;-)

Zezebel said...

Faza Aloha,
:D

Zezebel said...

Dulu Lain Sekarang Lain,
Boleh saja tu, hehe..

Zezebel said...

Itu lah kan Beaty, sebenarnya personal blog ni enjoy untuk di baca, tapi kalau asyik menjaja cerita peribadi dan masalah perasaan saja memanjang, sama lah macam menagih simpati and mau publisti murahan kan? Macam muka tidak malu saja ni...

Zezebel said...

Audrey Sayle,
Here in Malaysia is not the same like Hawaii or France, to talk openly about sex lives isn't nice here, :D.

Thanks for stopping by dear.

Zezebel said...

Purple Mama,
Yup, agree with you. Negative people complaint almost everything & almost everytime! They keep blaming others for their problem, never thought of what is wrong with them. They only know complaining about people around them and hurting other people feeling. I found a blogger who did all of that (in fact she should be ashamed for having a blog like that and don't deserved being called a blogger because she don't do any blogwalking and nobody come to read her blog too). She only talk how good she is and how bad people around her are.

Zezebel said...

PM,
So you are from KM too? Which part? I'm from Goshen but now live in Port Klang, :D

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