Well, I know this girl, sweet and naive. She is the type of person who believe in first love and believe that her first love is also her last love. There is nothing wrong with that, I know everyone also hoping the same, right? I am going to tell you a sad love story today, her story.
This girl do not believe in sex before marriage, she is really strong with her belief. Then, come a guy asking for her love, want to be her boyfriend and so, they become a couple. After some time, this girl came to me, crying. She told me that her boyfriend had rape her, but she did not dare to tell anybody. This guy also starting to asked for money, to treat him, paying for his phone and this girl just gave the money. This girl was afraid if the guy will leave her, that is why she just gave him the money.
But, one day, after almost five years with that guy, this guy starting acting suspicious. Every time they meet, this guy always look at his phone or watch. Sometimes, his phone rang and he will only answer it when this girl is not around him.
This girl, asked this guy for the truth, but this guy deny it, denying the fact that he had an affair with his colleague. But, come the moment when the truth suddenly been discovered. This girl cried and get mad. She called this guy's father and told him how bad his son was. In fact, she was going to tell the whole world how bad this guy was.
She really cannot accept the fact, and keep on thinking what will happen to her after this? she's losing everything. At first, she still want to continue cry and get mad, but then, a thought crossed her mind and make her think. So, she gave up and called this guy and gave him what he want - a break up. (he want a break up but did not dare to do it).
Later, I asked her what changing her mind? She smile and said that suddenly her mind asked her heart whether she is getting mad because of her love toward the guy or because of her ego? Turned out that she accepted the guy not because of love, but because she feel lonely, but too late for her to know the truth.
So, I really do not know how to comment in this matter. It is just lucky for her for being able to get rid of her past so fast. And, lucky for her for being able to realize what love is, and what ego is.