Saturday, February 12, 2011

Love or Stupid?

I know most of us are in a valentine mood right now, happy valentine to those who celebrate it, :). As this is the week of love, so I will mostly talk about love. No, I am not sharing my love story to you, but I will share others love story and hopefully all of us, can learn something from it.

Well, I knew this girl, such a young and pretty girl. She has two boyfriend, when the other boyfriend left her for good, she felt like her love toward the other boyfriend also disappeared. She want her ex back.  So, she try and try to get her ex back, ignored her other boyfriend and slept and had sex with her male  best friend and claimed that she cannot forget her ex. The thing is, how could she claimed that her love is strong when in the same time, she could sleep and had sex with her male best friend? How can she dreaming about taking care of other when she cannot take a good care of her self?

Another love story to share, I know this guy who soft as a woman in his heart. He fall in love with this poor girl, a student. So, they declared their feeling and as this guy already work, he support some of her financial needed but in the same time this girl slept with almost every man except her boyfriend. When she got pregnant, she came back to this guy, telling how big her love was to this guy. This guy cried and asked me "Bel, does my love that cheap in her eyes? Did she think because of my appearance, I will accept her just like that?" and until now, this guy is still single and do not want to get married.

Happy Valentine everyone. Love will make  us happy, but remember do not be stupid because of love. I would say the guy in the second story is doing his right decision there, while the girl in the first story, hopefully she will be a bit clever this year, hehe. 


Chayo-chayo....

16 comments:

Didz said...

first story is based on rebound. apa2pun bel, to conclude i think those 2 girls are stupid, hehe.
Yea, happy V-day too for those who are celebrating :)

Sumandak Kinabalu said...

Interesting :)
Someone who is very close to me have a love story of her own. Actually they just broke up their long relationship (since childhood). I know their relationship is in problem but who doesn't right?? I mean there is no such perfect relationship, sometimes you quarrel or let out a blablabla words...just like a wheel, sometimes up sometimes down. When they end the relationship officially, this guy cry and claimed that he still love this girl and she will be his sweetheart forever...

THEN suddenly without a warning, he got engaged and married in less than 3 months after the break up. How's that?? I heard his wife is 4mnths pregnant...Meaning??? You calculate the times by yourself

How can you declare love when at the same time you play with another love behind?? Isn't that stupid??

StellaClaire-Richard said...

that is NOT love. That is selfishness.

gadisBunga said...

love is complicated, still, for me. heheh~

belle, tolong!! mau kawin juga! :D

akubiomed said...

Loves make people blind and please more cautious.

AMBIVALENCE said...

I am all for keeping life simple. Romance can exist without having to have more than one guy on the go at once. I am sure in these sorts of examples, people don't know what they want. Or as already said, a rebound thing and not fully over the other person. All that's happening is putting themselves first and hurting other people and as already said being selfish.

For the guy, that tells me, he rushed into things, and reliant upon each-other rather than romance. No way do you rely upon somebody financially when you are not even married. It's like he was used. It's a shame he has been put off. I am sure at some point, he'll find a nice, reliable girl who is faithful and wants romance for the right reasons.

Love may be complicated, but it doesn't need to be as complicated as some people seem to make it.

You either like somebody or you don't, stick with one person and take it from there.

I know anybody can make mistakes. But what concerns me, is that in these sorts of examples, people rush into things, without thinking of the consequences. Before they know it, they have missed a good opportunity for a decent relationship. Then before thy know it, they are a bit older and wonder how on earth they'll get married. It's possible to get into a perpetual relationship situation, repating the same mistakes, or going for the same sort of person who is wrong for you. I hope these two examples: the people don't fall into a simiar trap again.

Colours of boulevard said...

i am in relationship for 3 years now... with lots of up and downs... i guess every relation have complications it is about how u deal with them.. :)

Anonymous said...

yeah...if u love someone it does not mean that at the same time u can't love the other one...but if u truly love someone then its very hard to move to the other one...

Zezebel said...

Didz
Memang sangat-sangat bodoh pun, masih berharap dengan laki orang pula tu, tak tahu malu sungguh...

Zezebel said...

Itulah tu mandak, mau cakap bodoh, ada otak juga...bikin malu saja, macam TIADA MARUAH BETUL NI...tapi MEMANG TIADA MARUAH PUN...

Zezebel said...

Itu lah kan Stella? Macamna lah dia boleh mengaku takkan ada cinta lain lagi dalam hidup dia kalau lelaki lain boleh tidur sama dia..sudah tu mengacau laki orang saja kerja..

Zezebel said...

GB
semoga GB bertemu jodoh yang baik. Jangan jadi hamba cinta macam betina dalam post ni.. :D

Zezebel said...

akubiomed
Betul tu...ada juga yang jadi sasau sebab cinta...otak letak kat tapak kaki..hihihih

Zezebel said...

AMBIVALENCE
Thanks for the advice dear, :D

Zezebel said...

Colours of boulevard
It is.. :D

Zezebel said...

Anonymous
Itu bodoh namanya kalau hati sendiri tak tahu dimana letaknya...

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