Imagine you have a happy new life now, already move on after the breakup with your ex.The only problem is your ex seem like crazy and desperate, cannot move on and still cannot accept the reality. They keep on sent you email even you never reply it. Worse of all, they put your name in the internet, so the whole world will know about their feeling.Yes, sound like an obsessed ex to me there, so annoying.
What will you do to get rid of it? Most of the people that I know will just ignore it. Never put their attention on that matter. But, what if even after a year or two, your ex still crazy for you? How will you react to that matter? I am sharing some tips here that might be useful to.
Never give a chance to your ex to negotiate or manipulate the situation. Refuse all offers of dates and friendly meeting.
2. Don't discuss the past
Never mention about the good times you have together, Instead, tell them how happy you are with your decision and make it clear that you have moved on in your life.
3. Keep things diplomatic if you have to see her a lot at school or work
Remember that your ex is just another person, not a friend. Be extra careful with your words because you will never know what your ex understand from it.
4. Stand your ground
Do not say you are better off alone but then return the next week because you are lonely. Be strong!!
5. Inform your family, friends and co-workers about the situation.
Having larger and stronger friends around may serve as deterrent.
6. Don't share any details about your new partner with the ex.
Because it will make their obsess more and details about your partner's life, picture etc, may endanger your partner (this is of course depending on how crazy your ex is).
Well, there are some tips that I can find. Have you ever facing with this situation? How do you react to it? Please share your experience if you have any.