Thursday, February 10, 2011

How To Handle Your Obsessed Ex

Imagine you have a happy new life now, already move on after the breakup with your ex.The only problem is your ex seem like crazy and desperate, cannot move on and still cannot accept the reality. They keep on sent you email even you never reply it. Worse of all, they put your name in the internet, so the whole world will know about their feeling.Yes, sound like an obsessed ex to me there, so annoying.

What will you do to get rid of it? Most of the people that I know will just ignore it.  Never put their attention on that matter. But, what if even after a year or two, your ex still crazy for you?  How will you react to that matter?  I am sharing some tips here that might be useful to.
 1.  Make your rejection final and firm
Never give a chance to your ex to negotiate or manipulate the situation. Refuse all offers of dates and friendly meeting. 

2.  Don't discuss the past
Never mention about the good times you have together, Instead, tell them how happy you are with your decision and make it clear that you have moved on in your life. 

3.  Keep things diplomatic if you have to see her  a lot at school or work
Remember that your ex is just another person, not a friend. Be extra careful with your words because you will never know what your ex understand from  it.

4.  Stand your ground
Do not say you are better off alone but then return the next week because you are lonely. Be strong!!

5.  Inform your family, friends and co-workers about the situation. 
Having larger and stronger friends around may serve as deterrent.

6.  Don't share any details about your new partner with the ex.
Because it will make their obsess more and details about your partner's life, picture etc, may endanger your partner (this is of course depending on how crazy your ex is).

Well, there are some tips that I can find. Have you ever facing with this situation? How do you react to it? Please share your experience if you have any.


Chayo-chayo....
 

14 comments:

lina said...

Wah Bel, you got an obsssed ex ke? XD

StellaClaire said...

saya ada pengalaman gini. but we tdk pernah couple ba. perasan ja the boy.just kwn seja ba. and the moment dia tau sya suda ada bf, trus dia jadi mcm gila.. mmg obsessed la..

Firaun NgebLoG said...

Cantiknya Bundaku.... ^_*

Sumandak Kinabalu said...

Naaah, ini yang bahaya nie. Kadang-kadang buat kita serba salah...
Just ignore it tapi kalau sudah melampau or out of control kena buat something juga lah, minta tolong atau nasihat dengan orang yang pakar...
Orang yang obsess ni sukar dijangka, kita nampak normal tapi hakikatnya mereka boleh mencederakan diri sendiri atau orang lain tanpa disedari sebab terlalu mengikut perasaan. Sudah obsess namanya kan...

suri said...

senyum mu menawan...

Amirez said...

nice tips ;) tak pernah lagi ada pengalaman macam ni hehe

julianusginting said...

actually...nice picture you have there..hehe

gadisBunga said...

no 2. did it! :D

beanizer_05 said...

*gulp*
owww..key...

akubiomed said...

It is like somebody stalker you everyday and you will never feel freedom.

Alaways people advice this 'If you really love somebody you need to let he/her go'

Zik said...

delete her phone number.. or account fb??? huhu

Firaun NgebLoG said...

kunjungan malam bunda....
gi dapat giliran ronda nich :D

beaty said...

sa tidak mau ingat lagi sa punya ex..past is past la bh kan

She is f.A.z.A said...

sgt agree at this point 'Don't discuss the past' :)

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