Friday, August 20, 2010

Some men not a gentleman

Yahoo! I will be back to Kota Marudu today in another few hours. Hehehehehe.... No more eating my sahur for Ramadhan alone. Saturday I will be helping my mom in her rice stall. It will also meant a rest day for my mom. Yup. that is my routine on Saturday with the help from my sister. If any of you feel like want to get my autograph, you're welcome to come to my mom stall. Hehehehehe.... Feel like I am a celebrity saying something like that.

Every walks of life in Kota Marudu came to my mom stall buying their daily rice supply. Most of the buyer are from urban area and they will buy a month supply of one sack of rice. That will be a 50 Kg of rice for a month. Sometimes, I meet some old people who don't know how to speak Malay, English or even Dusun language. The only language they know is their local language, I don't know how to speak Bajau, Suluk or Tagalog. We will be using hand language to communicate.




Only one thing always make me feel tired and dissatisfaction, when some men not a gentlemen, they don't try to help us lift their buying sack of rice into their car. Even a 20Kg of rice they will ask us to send it to their car. They park their car over 100 meters away even they knew that they can always park in front or at the back of my mom rice stall. Most of the guy who came to my mom stall  are healthy and have a muscle (some even like a body builder). Why don't they be a gentlemen and help us lift the sack of rice? Yeah, we do have muscle to and its your right to ask us to do everything you want but where is the gentlemen in you? If you going to the supermarket, will you go ask the cashier to bring the pack of rice to your car?


Please guys, be a gentlemen and do what a gentlemen suppose to do. If you're a healthy guy, even if you're younger or elder then me, shorter or taller then me, be a gentlemen, its not right to ask a girls lift a heavy items for you. Even if its your right as a buyer to ask us to do anything but where is the gentlemen in you?

Any of you gentlemen in here want to help us? Hehehehe....

Chayo-chayo....




44 comments:

lina said...

Some people think that because they pay money, they shouldn't be helping the "staff" loading things.

Anyway, true - hard to find gentlemen nowadays. :(

But think of it this way - you get a workout and get strong body! :D

julicavero said...

be a gentlemen..come on guys....shy to girls..

Zezebel said...

hahahahaha Lina.
Most guys buying rice at my mom place are like that. I cannot imagine what my mom is experiencing everyday.

Is a gentlemen a rare thing? Hehehehehe....

Maybe we can join a body builder gym anytime. LOL....

Zezebel said...

Yeah Juli.
Shame with those kind of guys.

suri said...

wah!
nampaknya kamu bertambah kuat dan gagah seperti lelaki..

kerja apa sekalipun semua kaum wanita dapat lakukannyakan..

Zezebel said...

Suri:

ya. memang bertambah gagah haha...
tapi penat and tak berbaloi rasanya kadang-kadang.

levian said...

you are one tough girl!
i guess its still cool to have the chance to train ourselves not to rely on the guys.
especially like what you mentioned,
gentlemen are so difficult to find these days. :p

Jamie said...

So men do that everywhere, huh? I once worked in a restaurant where I had to lift heavy boxes of frozen food from the delivery truck to the walk in freezer. Every. Single. Day. While the male managers sat in the lobby and smoked.

renaye said...

haha. sometimes it made me wonder when men can be that useless. sometimes at food court, i have to bring the food for the guy. and i have to lecture my guy friend so he would help me in the future. ugh.

fidde said...

lack of common sense i guess. but whatever it is, these kind of guys will use us women to the fullest. beware (even tho he is damn hot!) ;)

Zezebel said...

Levian.
so true..huhu...
this kind of people is just so annoying and such a bully.

Zezebel said...

Jamie.
They are sure very quick to spread...haha
i hate that kind of man. i see and meet them everywhere..and i really can't help but to wonder....where the hell do the gentlemen have gone. i'm just hoping that they will not extinct like the dinosaur..haha...

Zezebel said...

renaye.

guess we have to change that word 'gentleman' to gentlewoman...haha...

Zezebel said...

fidde.

i agree with you, hehe

elmo blurb said...

hiarghh!
tats it.
nak gak muscle camtuh.
tapi....
kurus sangat.
ahakss

Zezebel said...

elmo blurb.

hehe..
tu tangan my sister.
saya takde muscle camtu....
lari tunang saya karang nampak tangan lebih gagah dari tangannya...haha...

anN said...

lawa tu model tau wahahaha

Zezebel said...

haha...besa la ba..tukang amik gambar lg lawa tau...

Girlie said...

wow what can i say! why don't you just hire a guy to carry those sacks? you mean to say even your Mom helps carry? tsk tsk.

i know tagalog, i can be your interpreter =)

kak ina kl said...

akak dulu pun cam kamu..kuat angkat benda berat..skrg ni..hemmm kudrat dah makin berkurang dah..apa nak buat..umur nak setengah abad.

Zezebel said...

Hi girlie.
My mom hire someone before but he keep not coming to work and a little bit lazy when asked to do this heavy lifting of rice sack.

I wish you were here girlie, just called you via phone if i need a translation. Hehehehehe....

Zezebel said...

kak ina kl.

wanita tak elok angkat berat sebenarny kan?
tak elok untuk rahim...
betul ke tak, tak tahu lah. tu yang selalu saya dengar...

etomyam said...

hehehe...agreed. man got to do what man got to do... may be in your case, they are only 1/2 man muahaha

b.r.u.t.a.l.s.o.l.o said...

sepak je jika jumpa orang lelaki cam tu

CikLilyPutih said...

murah ke beras kat sane ek? klu murah boleh lah kirim kat u kan.. anyway some gentleman memang tak gentleman langsung lah

enyheartsdiamond said...

even my own bf is not gentleman enough :')

Zezebel said...

etomyam.
half men? Hahahahaha....

Zezebel said...

b.r.u.t.a.l.s.o.l.o
Macam la lelaki tu tak boleh sepak balik kan?

Zezebel said...

CikLilyPutih.
Tengok beras jugalah. kat sini ada variety sikit.

Zezebel said...

enyheartsdiamond.
Hahahahaha... He maybe reading this.... :P

luth said...

customer is always right. if he want you to put that thing into their car, do you want to scold him? just speak nicely to him, you are better then me. go, put yourself. haha

Faarihin said...

fuyooo wanita besi... hehehe..

Zezebel said...

luth.

haha...
i wish it could say that to them...

Zezebel said...

Faarihin.

haha...wanita besi yang dah nak jadi aluminium ni...

JK@techtrickz said...

Everything OK, but I read it as story.

Zezebel said...

JK@techtrickz

what do you mean?

cybernetic88 said...

amboi. kuatnye. haahha. tp2. xley lawn saya. lalala :P

Zezebel said...

cybernetic88

mari lah tolong kami hehe

jellybelly said...

That's reality Z. Me, I tend to not expect help from males, I just go ahead and do things myself and if they help...well fine thank you. :)

pigtimes said...

Hey, really nice blog you've got! Nice writing and lots of interesting stories...enjoyed it!

Zezebel said...

jellybelly.
Guys so help a girl when they see we need help. No matter how pretty or not we are.
If they're gentlemen lar. Hehehehe....

Zezebel said...

Thank you pigtimes for the visit.

The Depressed Reader said...

Hi Zezebel, thanks for coming by my blog! I appreciate the review!

That is a shame the way the customers act. Here in Japan there is an expression "okyakusan wa kami-sama desu", which means "The customer is god". I think that some of those jerks who park their cars a long way away and make you carry the heavy bags believe that!

Zezebel said...

The Depressed Reader : You'ra most welcome, :).

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